So you like this person, but want to make a real connection. How do you decide if they are a good match for you?

 

You have great banter and laugh easily together so that is a great start! Now you are ready to see if you can have a deeper connection or if you are better as friends. Getting to that answer requires really getting to know them. It is time to explore with more in-depth questions and careful listening. 

 

All sorts of topics will come up when you do this and it will progress the conversation.  Listen to the answer, then ask more probing questions and hopefully, then they will ask you questions in return.


Here are some conversation starters:

 

  1. What type of relationship are you hoping for at the moment?
  2. How do you define success?
  3. Tell me what you enjoy about your work?
  4. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  5. Tell me your pet peeves.
  6. What are you looking forward to having the most in your next relationship?
  7. What superpower would you choose and why?
  8. What would you do with a million dollars?
  9. Tell me 3 of your guilty pleasures?
  10. What brings out your silly side?
  11. Who are some people that you admire?
  12. What cheers you up?
  13. How do you like to spend your birthday?
  14. What is your favorite holiday and why?
  15. Tell me about your spiritual/religious upbringing?
  16. What do you like to do to chill after a stressful day?
  17. What stresses you out?
  18. What is your most prized possession?
  19. How are you with trusting people?
  20. What are your love languages?
  21. What are you like when you are upset?
  22. Tell me some of your relationship deal breakers?
  23. What are you most proud of?
  24. If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
  25. Would you like to be famous?
  26. What do you hope to accomplish in your lifetime?
  27. What celebrity do you relate to?
  28. Tell me about your family?
  29. What annoys you about yourself?
  30. What personal goal do you really want for yourself?

 

It is fun to ask a few questions like these every time you talk or meet. Asking your crush deeper questions shows them you are truly interested in them and it will help you grow closer. You will not only learn more about them through their answers, but also what they choose to ask you. 

 

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