No worries, showing your love is not about money. They are a person who just like you, who wants to be honored and loved. Celebrate them in the same ways you would any S.O.
There are SO many ways that you can show someone with means how you feel about them in a way that you can afford.Â
This is not about giving to them in an extravagant way. They know your budget and don’t want you to go overboard more than you should. This is about love.
You want to make them feel special and cared for just like you need from them. Do special things, sentimental things, little things, helpful things, loving things to show you care.Â
First you want to know their love language. You are never going to blossom as a couple and truly connect without knowing each other’s love language.
Take the short quiz at https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language. There are 5 love languages – don’t try to guess as you might get it wrong and you may have more than one love language.Â
You want to focus most of your efforts using your partner’s love language, but take the time to show them how you feel through all of the 5 love languages – Quality Time, Acts of Service, Gifts, Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. They are all important.
You will love the book because you can turn right to your partner’s love language section and yours too.
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Here are 16 ideas for any time of year that will make your partner feel loved and treasured:
- Leave a love note in their work bag. (words of affirmation)
- Put loving and/or sexy sticky notes all over the house. (words of affirmation)
- Pack a picnic and drive them to a cozy spot. (quality time, touch)
- Take them on an outing for their favorite outdoor hobby – tennis, hiking, biking, kayaking. (quality time)
- Drive them to the beach or an overlook for cocktails to watch the sunset.(quality time, touch, words of affirmation)
- Cook their favorite meal. (acts of service)
- Bake their favorite dessert or pick it up on the way home for a snuggle up on the couch movie night. (quality time, touch)
- Buy them a frame with one of your favorite couple moments inside. (gifts)
- Do the dishes after your meal or run to the store for them. (acts of service)
- Help them plan something – an outing or a gift or a party (acts of service)
- Thank them when they do things for you, express appreciation. (words of affirmation)
- Make a scrapbook of your latest trip(s) together. (gifts, words of affirmation)
- Go to a festival and explore, try new foods, buy a silly momento to remember your day (quality time, touch, gifts)
- On your next trip, pay attention to your partner’s favorite part of the trip – buy a souvenir that will remind them of your getaway.
- Take your favorite photo of you and create a Christmas ornament or photo sign or wall canvas. (gifts)
- Create a scavenger hunt around the house and lead them to a romantic ending. (words of affirmation, touch, quality time)
Money never has to be an issue. Show your love and affection in their love language(s) just like you would any significant other. Enjoy each other, be affectionate, romantic, expressive and thoughtful. Enjoy growing closer as a couple, what an exciting time for you both.
If you want to learn more about how to connect with your partner this book is THE guide and its an easy read. You can turn right to the section you need.
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