It is ok to change your mind. Just say it! Don’t disappear.

Dating can be tough no matter what side you are on. What makes things easier is being honest. For example, if you are asked on a date and on impulse you accept, then later change your mind, let the other person know.  Right now they are excited about seeing you again or they may have changed their mind as well.  Call or text and let them know you really enjoy their company but you don’t think you are a good romantic match.  Who knows they may agree, then you are both off of the hook and you have mutual respect.

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Yes, being honest is tough, but you never know when you may run into this person again or you end up dating someone they know.  You don’t want to have awkward moments in the future. Being honest also releases the other person so they know to move on.

This is also true if you have dated someone for a while.  If you gave the relationship a try and you know you aren’t a good match, schedule a time to meet with them.

Tell them how you feel and say goodbye in a kind way. Wish them well. Never ghost someone. If you do, you will feel terrible and when you run into them in the future it will be very uncomfortable.

You don’t want to have to walk out of a restaurant because you spot 3 people you have ghosted. You also don’t want to develop a reputation of being dishonorable. People share their stories with people they know and with the prominence of social media you really want to be sure you conducted yourself well.

If someone you trust told you they had been ghosted or otherwise disrespected by someone, you would never go out with that person.

Be honest-as soon as you are sure that person is not for you. That way they know the truth, you feel good about how you have handled yourself, and you can both move on.

 

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