Resources
Here are some fantastic resources for you, which will answer more of your questions and motivate you to create the change you want. Hopefully, you will feel inspired to learn about a topic you hadn’t yet considered. These resources will build your confidence and teach you some secrets that will make dating and your relationships much easier. Take a listen, a watch or a read…
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Dating Resources
Article: Dating Strategies
These Are The Strategies Dating Coaches Use To Help Clients With Their Love Lives
Article: First Date Ideas
Read the article from Best Life, of 45 Irresistible First Date Ideas That’ll Immediately Break the Ice
Article: Rules for Dating
Read this article about the “6 Essential Rules For Dating”
Online Dating Profile Advice
Read this article on “10 Photos You, A Man, Should Not Put in a Dating App Profile”
Video: 5 Signs Your Relationship is Over
The 5 signs your relationship is over
Article: Lessons from a Dating Coach
What 10 Years of Being An Online Dating Coach Taught Me About Men
Resources For Everyone
Love Language Assessment
Everyone needs to take the Love Language assessment – why you are such a good match on paper but just not connecting, it explains some of why your partner doesn’t seem to understand you. Take the assessment:
Book: The 5 Love Languages
The 5 Love Languages book or Audio CD: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman
Book: Love and Respect
Love and Respect – book by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. This book is life-changing! If you are not religious or spiritual no problem, skip those sections. The author did a good job of writing if for everyone.
Video: The Price of Invulnerability
Why don’t my partner and I feel closer? What is keeping us apart? Why can’t I open up? The price of invulnerability – Brené Brown
Video: The Magic of Not Giving a F***
Does your life no longer feel like your own? Are you out of balance? Being out of balance can sabotage you which then of course sabotages your relationship. Here is a video and a book to help you reclaim your life: The Magic of not giving a F*** video
Video: 5 Signs of Relationship Compatibility
5 Signs of Relationship Compatibility video by Psycho2go
Book: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
Or read a book on that subject which will give even more tools to reclaim your life: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson
Video: 6 Signs of a Strong Relationship
6 Signs of a Strong Relationship video by Psych2go
Articles: Relationship Tips
12 Trusted Relationship Tips From Experts and Real Couples: Secrets of the Best Relationships
Resources For Married / Committed Couples
Video: How to keep your partner’s love tank full
Quiz: Love Language Assessment
Take the Love Language assessment by Gary Chapman
Book: Boundaries in Marriage
Book: Boundaries in Marriage by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
Video: Making Marriage Work
Making marriage work video Dr. John Gottman
Marriage Prep Resources
Video: 8 questions to ask your partner before you get married
Video: 5 Signs of Relationship Compatibility
5 Signs of Relationship Compatibility video by Psycho2go
Video: 6 Signs of a Strong Relationship
6 Signs of a Strong Relationship video by Psych2go
Lighthearted and real comments from married couples
(without preparing for marriage sessions you can’t possibly talk through everything you NEED to know before marrying)
Video: Advice from couples married 0-65 years
Video: The worst thing about being married
Video: Being challenged of being married
Video: What do you argue about?
